"The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying gives me a headache." — Marjorie Pay Hinckley
Monday, September 15, 2008
Robyn's first Soccer Game
Our Home
When you come into our front door this is what you see before you walk up the stair case.
This is the before and after shots of the living room. The before pics are al on the left and after pics are all on the right.
This is before and after pics of the kids bathroom.
This is before and after pics of the girls and boys room. I have posted pics of their rooms in previous posts.
This is the before and after pics of the rec/play room. The pics are taken at different angles but you get the general idea of the before and after.
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Tiny is NOT so "tiny" anymore
This picture of LoriAnne and Tiny was taken tonight. Tiny is now 5 months old. So now you can see that Tiny is NOT so "tiny" anymore. Out of all our children LoriAnne is the most attached to this dog.
Saturday, September 6, 2008
Emma's Birthday Party
Here are LoriAnne and Robyn listening to the instructions the coach is giving them.
This is LoriAnne on the rope swing getting ready to land into the pit of foam cubes.
All Dressed Up And No Where To GO
This is what she kept doing....smiling. She loves playing soccer. She has a great coach. A couple of the girls on her team go to her school.
Tuesday, September 2, 2008
Update on Mikey...see previous entry for more info
My "momma" would be proud!
Monday, September 1, 2008
A BREAKTHROUGH...sortof
So today while I was in the ER with Mikey the nurse who put a splint on Mikey mentioned how good he was. She could not believe for 2 1/2 years old he sat still the entire 4 hours we were at the hospital. Then she started asking me some questions about Mikey. All I could think of was you are the first person to know Mikey without really knowing him. It turns out she is raising her grandson who has Asperger's syndrome. While we were in California he was somewhat diagnosed with Sensory Integration Dysfunction. They were going to test him further when he turned 3. As I talked to this lady she told me to go on line and read up about Asperger's and there are tests you can take to see if you think your child has it. I have cut and pasted the symptoms below. Mikey fits this 100%. I can't tell you how good this feels to know what direction to take with him. So this week as I follow up with his doctor on his leg we will be getting a referral to get him tested for Asperger's at Vanderbilt Children's Hospital.
Symptoms during childhood
Parents often first notice the symptoms of Asperger's syndrome when their child starts preschool and begins to interact with other children. Children with Asperger's syndrome may:
**Not pick up on social cues and lack inborn social skills, such as being able to read others' body language, start or maintain a conversation, and take turns talking. (taking turns talking is an everyday-all day long problem I have with Mikey)
**Dislike any changes in routines.
**Appear to lack empathy.
**Be unable to recognize subtle differences in speech tone, pitch, and accent that alter the meaning of others’ speech. Thus, your child may not understand a joke or may take a sarcastic comment literally. Likewise, his or her speech may be flat and difficult to understand because it lacks tone, pitch, and accent.
**Have a formal style of speaking that is advanced for his or her age. For example, the child may use the term "beckon" instead of "call," or "return" instead of "come back."
**Avoid eye contact.
**Have unusual facial expressions or postures.
**Be preoccupied with only one or few interests, which he or she may be very knowledgeable about. Many children with Asperger's syndrome are overly interested in parts of a whole or in unusual activities, such as doing intricate jigsaw puzzles, designing houses, drawing highly detailed scenes, or astronomy.2
**Talk a lot, usually about a favorite subject. One-sided conversations are common. Internal thoughts are often verbalized.
**Have delayed motor development. Your child may be late in learning to use a fork or spoon, ride a bike, or catch a ball. He or she may have an awkward walk. Handwriting is often poor.
**Have heightened sensitivity and become overstimulated by loud noises, lights, or strong tastes or textures. For more information about these symptoms, see sensory integration dysfunction.
Pendley Happenings
Robyn lost another tooth today. She was very excited. It makes her look more grown up. It just does not seem like she should be 5 years old already.
The next on the Pendley Happenings is Mikey fractured his leg. We do not know how he did it or when he did it. Try explaining that to the ER. Luckily he gave them a different answer where it hurts everytime they asked him. He never complained of pain. We just noticed he had a bad limp today. Since he couldn't tell the doctor where it hurt he was x-rayed from the waist down. I am sure this is not the only time we will have a problem like this with him. I think we have been very fortunate so far that this is all that has happened. The great thing was since he was not in "pain" he was very happy the entire time (4 hours) I was in the ER with him. It definitely made the visit more pleasant. He isn't suppose to walk on his leg for a few days until it is x-rayed again later this week. So far he has enjoyed being carried everywhere.